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My child gets stressed and cries when he sees his new K2 teacher

STOMPer Frankie Tan is worried and puzzled as to why his son cries every time he sees his new K2 teacher.

In an email to STOMP today (Aug 31), the STOMPer says:

“For the past two months, my son has been very stressed and fearful when he goes to childcare. He is scared of one of the new teachers which the childcare has just employed.

“He cries every day when he reaches childcare, and the moment he sees that teacher, he starts crying immediately.

“Ever since he knew that this teacher would be teaching him in K2, he has been telling us he does not want to go K2 (same for some of his classmates). He even requested us to change school for him.

“For the past three years, we are very glad and thankful that our son is in good hands, and we have no worries when we are working. I noticed his positive changes since the day he started going to this childcare. We really appreciate the care and concern which the teachers have shown towards my son.

“Now, we are very concern about this issue which he is facing and have already spoken to the childcare person-in-charge (twice) and that teacher personally. We don't see any improvement at all.

“As parent, we just want our kid to be happy and not be stressed and fearful during his long hours in childcare. The government has been encouraging Singaporeans to have more babies but first of all, we must ensure that our kids are in good hands.

“Childcare teachers should let the child feel safe and comfortable when they are with them. Imaging our kids having to be with a stranger at such a young age.

“All the teachers in this childcare have no issues with my son, and the feedback I receive is that my son is quite well-behaved in school.

“Now we are very worried that this will affect his development (mentally and physically). By bringing this matter out, hopefully we can know the standard of teachers most childcare centres have."

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nana1314 said   on 23 Nov, 2010   Report as offensive  
hahahahahah this noob kid cry baby
SarongPartyBoy said   on 8 Apr, 2010   Report as offensive  
Your boy needs to man up , if not how to survive NS?
philipkee said   on 9 Sep, 2009   Report as offensive  
When I was young, I also cried when i went to kindergarten cos I dun want to go school. Changed schools three time and I liked the third school. Why? Nothing to do with the teachers. Just the the classroom is facing open area and I can see the playground, escape.............

Simply put? There are thousands of reasons why a child will cry, dun want to go to school which will not be understood by parents (but perfectly logical to a child).
Honeybee76 said   on 9 Sep, 2009   Report as offensive  
Kids nowadays not stupid. they know how to 'keng' so don't need go school. maybe he thinks by crying can get his way as he always does at home...some are just spoilt. they are not at fault, their parents r responsible for their upbringing which starts at home.
seanNAEE said   on 8 Sep, 2009   Report as offensive  
check his back side got grow bigger or not..
paperangel said   on 8 Sep, 2009   Report as offensive  
Maybe you should request to sit in the childcare one day and see what is going on. Maybe she yells at the kids and they are scared of her? Or maybe she pinches/hits them. If her attitude is not acceptable, ask to change classes or childcare altogether. Your child's well-being is more important. And which childcare is it? Other mothers want to avoid it too.
StomperWeeNee said   on 7 Sep, 2009   Report as offensive  
Hmmmmmmm Maybe you should switch childcare?
Roseheart said   on 5 Sep, 2009   Report as offensive  
Poor kid. Check his body wether got any bruises or wounds anot. If got that means the teacher hit him. Hit him real hard... =/