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SlutWalk S'pore: 'If women have the right to dress sexy, men have the right to look'

Singaporean women are preparing to take part in the local version of the SlutWalk on Dec 4 at Hong Lim Park. STOMPer Handsome Boy wonders if this movement is really necessary in Singapore, and if it might send out the wrong message to the young.

He also questions why some women take offence when men stare at them, even though they are aware they are dressed in a sexy manner.

The first SlutWalk took place on April 3 in Toronto, Canada, after a police officer said that "women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be vicitimised".

In response to this statement, Women took to the streets wearing skimpy outfits to promote women's rights and not blaming the victims in sex offences.

According to The New Paper, in the Singapore version of the SlutWalk, however, women do not have to dress like 'sluts' to take part -- they can turn up in anything, from jeans to T-shirt. Organisers say that one does not need to identify with being a 'slut' to participate, because the objective is to express sexuality without fear.

One supporter of the SlutWalk movement, permanent resident Miss Fei Wong, 32, feels that it is time for women to reclaim their right to express their sexuality without fear.

The regional assistant director of sales recalls how she was stared at by an elderly man as she walked past him in a body-hugging outfit.

She said:

"That elderly man was staring down at me, as if he was mentally raping me. I asked him in Hokkien: 'Uncle, what are you looking at?' Then he looked away."

"When a woman dresses up, she is bound to get some attention, but she is not asking for rape."

STOMPer Handsome Boy, however, challenges the relevance of having a SlutWalk in Singapore. He said:

"First of all, I would like to say that I'm all for women's rights.

"But I don't know if this whole SlutWalk thing is necessary or relevant in Singapore, or if it's just another copycat idea by women here who think that just because some women in a Western country is affected by it, they should be too.

"And I worry that because the word 'slut' is used for the movement (even if the ultimate objective is to promote women's rights), young girls might get the wrong message -- thinking that dressing provocatively is OK.

"I'm not saying that it's not all right for women to dress sexy (not naughty), but if they feel that they have the right to dress the way they like, then it's not fair for them to get upset when men stare at them, because the men can argue that they are free to look at whatever they like too!

"It's human nature for men to be attracted to pretty and sexy women, and let's face it -- some men take glances, others stare. That's how it is in the real world.

"So while I agree that rape victims should never be blamed, no matter how they are dressed, I also feel that women should be realistic if about certain things.

"If they are dressed in a sexy manner, they are bound to get attention, whether they like it or not.

"So I just feel that it's unfair for women to blame guys for staring when they feel that they have the right to dress sexy."

Look at photos number 7 - 14, and tell us which of these you consider 'slutty' or inappropriate and why.

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mikexu1900 said   on 2 Dec, 2011   Report as offensive  
Dave Chappelle: "The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a whore!" Which is true. Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is *****ing confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me, saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore's uniform."
And in this case slut lol
sop_rally said   on 9 Nov, 2011   Report as offensive  
I think rape cases will soon increase.
xoahnana said   on 8 Nov, 2011   Report as offensive  
Those who dress with so much skin showing should be ready to find that people will stare. But again, it doesn't give anyone the right to touch them.
Papabucky said   on 7 Nov, 2011   Report as offensive  
Wearing sluty is already very attention seeking, now slut walk!!
Guess those cheap sg female r lacking of attention
dragoon034 said   on 7 Nov, 2011   Report as offensive  
Want to wear like that yet don't want people look then might as well don't wear until so revealing lah...
LOL!!
Papabucky said   on 6 Nov, 2011   Report as offensive  
Handsome guys look = appreciation
Old ugly look = tiko pek, pervert, sick la

Sg female n their craps
EmyCasanova said   on 6 Nov, 2011   Report as offensive  
All you women have to realize that you are the most amazing creatures. I don't quite understand why some have to be uptight. Doesn't matter what you wear, if a man stares, glances or make a puddle with his saliva, you shouldn't take it as an insult, but a compliment. #justsaying
Papabucky said   on 6 Nov, 2011   Report as offensive  
if that sg female r attractive and slim, why not.

But for those fat ugly stupid sg female who r join this campaign, pls dont make a fool out of urself!!