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50 undergraduate and graduate women were asked whether they would date a blue-collar worker, and all said no. STOMPer Ophelia agrees with these results, and says she too would prefer dating someone of the same social and intellectual standing.

The poll was conducted by The New Paper.

Ophelia wrote:

"As a female graduate, I'm not surprised that all the 50 women polled by TNP said they would not marry a blue-collar worker.

"To me, there's nothing elitist about this mindset and I have nothing against blue-collar workers.

"I enjoy literature and watching plays and musicals, and I'm used to a certain lifestyle that requires a certain salary to maintain. So, in terms of intellect and social standing, I would prefer a fellow graduate with a bright future."

According to the New Paper article, dating agencies say few women here are willing to 'marry down'. Seven dating agencies say their female graduate clients all ask to be matched with men who have at least the same educational level.

Ms Lydia Gan, co-founder of Clique Wise dating agency, says she has had women clients who married less-educated men while they were in their 20s only to become unhappy a decade later. By then, the women would be doing well in their careers, but the men would still be holding low-paying jobs.

MP Indranee Rajah said that while having the same educational background can help couples gel, women should not write off men based on a piece of paper. But one academic who has done a study on what women look for in a spouse said the general principle is still to marry someone of your educational level.

In an earlier article, 22-year-old Eliza Lee, who is a rich graduate, raised eyebrows when she chose to marry a chicken rice seller.

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psalm91sg said   on 20 Sep, 2012   Report as offensive  
That why singaporean did not have enough badies to make. The girls should go understudy at Yunan with the tride girl.Btw, may i ask the girls what if there is a world don't need money ,status, having equal area of house or property, then what the girl is want?
verx said   on 25 Apr, 2012   Report as offensive  
Being materialistic is alright but never prioritize money on top of relationship and family
Jiele2008 said   on 24 Apr, 2012   Report as offensive  
To maintain the family or to maintain the local char boh lavishing spending and needs?anyway,this is the future breed that will bring down the sinkies birthrate further.... Cos what is in their mind is $$$$$, no love and human touch..... Even an Ah gua may be more loving...
johnlim5555 said   on 24 Apr, 2012   Report as offensive  
this video has a lot of ugly girls.
takahashi said   on 24 Apr, 2012   Report as offensive  
now a day singapore girls treat guys like a money spinner. NO MONEY = NO HONEY. It makes them no difference between a hooker.
takahashi said   on 24 Apr, 2012   Report as offensive  
maybe i may find a vietnamese wife next yr. have bad experience with three sg girls. all bloody $$$$ face.
oink2210 said   on 23 Apr, 2012   Report as offensive  
Honestly, I heard of many stories that couples dated and in the end just because marriage, the woman just say quit. I am one who will never consider a Singapore woman. It is a fact, they love only money. Before Singapore woman were the prc woman. Now Singapore woman are just as ugly. Some Singapore woman who are fat and ugly with high education also want to act class.
madpiggy said   on 23 Apr, 2012   Report as offensive  
Again I have to say 70% Singapore woman want to marry rich guys. Just like PRC as long you have a vagina I size fit all. if you really like money so much can try freelance open leg 1hr $800 1 day $8000 if you think you are sexy and good skill and is TAX FREE. Or you can try marry some rich old man maybe young 1 then divorce get some share. Sorry for those girls pure heart and understand want is love and marry is about. Life is a game if you wacky it you bear with it. I my self a blue collar. But I feel very happy with my pay and my life.