Following the Jack Neo debacle, STOMPer Watchoutmen says that Singaporean men should be more careful when they get involved with girls, as they might try to shame them if the relationship turns sour.

Singapore's most successful movie director, Jack Neo, 50, is now in the media limelight after his affair with a 22-year-old model, Wendy Chong, was exposed when she turned up at his Pasir Ris home recently to confront Jack's wife.

Now, another girl, actress-hostess Foyce Le Xuan, 25, has come forward, claiming that six years ago, Jack had pursued her passionately for a year, even promising to groom her to become the next Fann Wong.

STOMPer Watchoutmen said:

"We've heard the Edison Chen and Tiger Woods sex scandals. And now, Singapore finally has its own scandal involving Jack Neo.

"While I am disappointed with Jack Neo for his extramarital affair, I think it's unfair to put all the blame on him.

"If he's a jerk, then what about that Wendy Chong girl? She knew he was married, yet she got involved with him. And now she's playing a damsel in distress?

"She said she wanted to shame Jack to prevent him from doing the same things to other 'victims'. How is she a victim in all this? She is just as guilty as Jack because she knew she was getting involved with a married man. If anyone is a victim, it's Jack's wife and family.

"It's always easier to blame the guy when a relationship goes wrong, but I think girls should take ownership of their actions too. It takes two hands to clap.

"They say they want equality in everything, but when a relationship goes wrong, they want to play the weaker sex. Is that fair?

"And now another girl has come forward to shame him, just like how Tiger Woods' girls slowly started to reveal their trysts with the golfer.

"I urge guys to be more careful when they get involved with girls.

"They might say they love you, but like the saying goes, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned -- if they're unhappy with you, they would do anything to shame you.

"And it seems that girls hunt in a pack."

Both Wendy and Foyce are now revealing their involvement with Jack Neo, saying that they want to shame him and warn others that he is a 'serial cheater'.

Foyce said in an interview: "I want people to know that Jack is a serial cheater.

"A lot of the reports now are skewed towards him and his family.

"He said he still loves his family, and the public pities his wife and blames Wendy Chong.

"Then this experience will have no effect on Jack and girls will continue to be conned by him.'

Wendy said: "I was stupid lor. I can only say, ya lah, I made the mistake."

She told The New Paper that she was upset because Jack had kept her away from the gala premiere of Being Human at VivoCity last Tuesday.

Wendy said:

"I had a part in the film too, so why was I not invited up on the stage when the cast made its appearance?

"He was blowing hot and cold in our relationship. I could not understand why he was doing this to me after we'd been together all this time.

"Since we were going to end everything, I wanted everyone to know what an ass the real Jack Neo is.

"I wanted to shame him -- so that he cannot do this to another victim."